Kuthetha ntoni ku ukuphupha ibele/iimpumlo? Ngaba ukuphupha ngebele lisibikezelo esilungileyo okanye esibi? Ukuphupha ngesifuba kunomfanekiso obonakalayo, kunye nokucinga okuzimeleyo komphuphi. Ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nephupha malunga namabele / amabele nceda ubone inkcazo eneenkcukacha yokuphupha malunga nebele.
Uhlalutyo olusisiseko lwamaphupha aqhelekileyo malunga namabele
Ukuphupha ngamabele kuneentsingiselo ezininzi ezinje, umnqweno wesini, uthando lukamama, kunye nokwenziwa kwamabhinqa.
Indoda iphupha amabele ibonisa ukuba umphuphi unomnqweno onamandla wangaphakathi wokufuna ukunakekelwa komama kwaye unokubonisa umnqweno wakhe wokulala ngesondo.
Ukuphupha ukuncelisa umntwana wakho luphawu oluhle, lubonisa ubomi obonwabileyo, ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yakho kunye neenzuzo eziqhubekayo.
Ukuphupha amabele apheleleyo kunye anomtsalane kuthetha ukuba umphuphi unempilo enhle kwaye unobomi obonwabileyo, kwaye iminqweno yakhe iya kuzaliseka.
Ukuphupha ukudumba kwebele kunye nobisi oluphumayo liphupha elihle kakhulu. Kubonisa ukuba nizizityebi ngokwenyama nangokomoya .
Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha amabele avuvukala, oko kunokuthetha umnqweno wakhe wesini, okanye umnqweno wokuba nomntwana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba uphupha amabele abe mancinci, ayancipha, okanye abe mabi, kubonisa ukuba unokukhathazeka kwaye ukhathazeke ngenxa yokugula okanye ukunyuka kwenkcitho. Kusenokuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho ukujija kunye nokujika othandweni, kwaye unokuba buhlungu ngokumka kwesithandwa sakho.
Ukuphupha amabele ahexayo kuthetha ukuba umzimba wakho ubuthathaka, unokufumana ukulahleka kwenkumbulo, ukuphulukana nokufunda okanye ukusebenza kakuhle. Kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwizongezo zesondlo.
Ukuphupha ukuba amabele akho ayatshintsha, ukuba makhulu okwethutyana kwaye amancinci okwethutyana. Lumnka! Ibonisa ukuba unokugula, kwaye impilo yakho inokuba sengozini.
Ukuphupha ukuba unamabele amaninzi kodwa ungoyiki, kusenokubonisa ukuba uneminqweno yobunina enamandla kwaye unethemba lokuba iimpawu zakho zobufazi kunye neempawu zikamama zomelele, kwaye unokubakhulisa okanye uncede abanye abantwana abanesimo sengqondo sikamama. Ukuba uziva uxhalabile kakhulu ephupheni, kukukhumbuza ukuba ubeke ingqalelo ngakumbi kwimpilo yakho.
Ukuba uphupha amabele akho ephathwa ngumntu , oko kubonisa inkxalabo yakho yesini. Kwelinye icala, kuthetha ukuba unexhala isini entliziyweni yakho, kunye nokusebenzisana kwakho namadoda kuya kukwenza uzive ucinezelekile kwaye woyike ukuba ukuziphatha kwakho kuya kubangela ukungaqondani; kwelinye icala, ibonisa umnqweno wakho onzulu wokuba neentlobano zesini nendoda.
Ukutolikwa kwengqondo yokuphupha amabele
Ukutolika kwephupha: Abantu bacinga ukuba into yokuqala abadla ngokuyibona emaphupheni yinxalenye ethile yomzimba. Amabele amabhinqa afanekisela isondlo kunye nothando lukamama. Ukuba indoda iphupha amabele, ibonisa umnqweno wakhe ongaphantsi kothando lomama okanye ukunakekelwa kakuhle ngumfazi.
Uhlalutyo lwengqondo: Nangona uninzi abantu ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhanyela umnqweno wokufuna ukhathalelo okanye uthando, iminqweno enjalo isabonakala kwimbono yengqondo, ngakumbi xa abantu bexakekile kwaye benoxinzelelo, bangxamiseke ngakumbi.
Isimboli somoya: Isifuba simela umama, ukhuseleko kunye nothando, ngokwembono yokomoya.
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Uhlalutyo lwamaphupha: amabele amabhinqa ikakhulu amele iintsingiselo ezininzi ezinjengothando, umnqweno wesini, uthando lukamama, ukuba ngumama kunye nokubhinqa.
Ephupheni lakho, ufumanise ukuba unamabele amathathu, anentsingiselo engokomfuziselo. Mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba awunazo iimpawu zesifazane "zomama" kunye "nothando lukamama". Ngokomzekelo, uvakalelwa kukuba "awuyena wesifazane" ngokwaneleyo, ungumfazi, kwaye awukwazi ukutsala abantu besini esahlukileyo. Unqwenela ukuba namandla angakumbi kunye nendawo efanelekileyo yokudlala imvelo yabasetyhini, okanye uthando lukamama.
Ukongeza, njengoko uneempawu zomzimba kumaphupha akho, kufuneka kwakhona ubeke ingqalelo kwimpilo yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha isenokuba luphawu lweengxaki zempilo.
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